Monday, April 11, 2005

Somethings to remember for having date.

There are some things guys should do when go out date with girls
And of cos, some shouldn't.

When go on date:

Guy should be decisive.
Eg.
Girl:"Where should we go?"

Be quick and decide. Nevermind if you don't know where to go. Just decide on one place.
And something very important to remember, never bring a girl to Arcade or gaming place. It's a no no..Points will be cut off. Leave the choice of going arcade to the last resort. I mean very very last. But sometimes, some games would pull your relationship closer. not violent game please. games that you could play together. Like hitting crocodile, driving game..
But remember, this is the very last choice you should be considering..

Well, I failed this point. I'm indecisive of where to go, most of the time.. so , do a careful planning when every you go on date..

Gentlemen act

Well guys, being gentlement isn't that difficult isn't it? Hope you are nodding your heavy head now. some gentlemen act would be, pulling chairs for the girl/ladies to sit. Of cos remember to help a little by pushing the chair back abit.

I know, of cos, in Singapore, guys don't usually do that and we usually had meals either at foodcourts or non air-conditioner "Kopitiam", so guys would feel weird/eyes looking at you.. Guys, so what's about the little "embrassing". It's a pleasure to do that for a girl/lady. And this would be a additional point for you. Girl would remember that.. Girl would remember little things guys do for her. She would feel happy or you are such a sweet guys..

Another act, send the girl home.. No matter if you are or are not her boyfriend, no matter how early, how late.. send her home, if situation doesn't allow you to send her up to her door steps, den at least to the lift. if you two went out till very late, den took a cab, guys, remember to see her to the lift, dun becos of having to pay cab fee twice den you let her walk to the lift alone.. It's a stupid thing you would ever do.. As I had said, girls remember little action you did for her, though she won't say it..But, her heart knows it. If she say doesn't mind, her heart mind. If a girl say no need you to send her home, don't care it guys.. must insist in sending, if not, just follow the girl and keep quiet if she's pissed off by you earlier on..

To be continued...

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Lol, very true.

Actually, not all girls dislike going to the arcade. If your date is supposed to be a fun date, why not? I know some girls who play Time Crisis leh :P

IMO, the places you should avoid are: bookstores/sim lim square/etc.

What I learnt is that girls are more concerned with what they feel, rather with what they see. So if you can make her feel good being with you, checkmate!

How to make her feel good? Varies from 1 girl to another :/ But common things will be those sweet little things that you do.

- Stan

Jun Wei said...

To bro,STAN.

yah lah, i noe lah.. not all girls dislike arcade. but mostly mah.. that's why i say leave it to the last resort.fun date, also can do other things.

i agree IYO, bookstore and simlims is out of questions. i just didn't list out. if not, there would be a whole list of not suppose to go..

what are the swett little things you do? i listed some, is it right?
what's more.. i'm still searching more on this topic. haha

Anonymous said...

yah..i would agree that the things you mentioned ARE considered thoughtful/sweet to girls.

however, i personally think that this is a gamble. if the girl likes you, she will definitely give you bonus points for your little acts. BUT if she only likes you as a friend, you are wasting your time and efforts.

and the sad thing is that you will never know how she feels until the day you open your mouth. :/

i'll write more after my supp paper today. :)

- Stan

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